Have You Ever Been Gangbanged

Obviously something went wrong since I am writing you from prison! Terri: Yes, drugs play an important role in gangs. She s not your enemy. In those times, the community/village was in tune with the needs of the child and every man woman and child functioned harmoniously with the needs of the community/village and thus the children.

When a female gets involved with a guy in a gang, she immediately gets all the bad things the guy might be in for. In other words, have someone else fight their fight or intimidate anyone from picking on them. So how can I get her to understand that this is who I am? Now Erika, don't get me wrong. With best wishes - Al R. La Triste, Yes, gangs do fuck up your life! "Holla at me, " Raines instructed. "True dat, " affirmed executive editor "Snoop-Kitty" Orr, kickin' it old school in DuPont Circle, iced skim venti latte in hand. I just needed time to think, but that wasn t the proper way of doing it. P. My older brother is married, has a daughter and is a Pastor. So give yourself a chance, and give Moms a chance to be a part of your life instead of arguing with her about issues that she has the right to argue about because she loves you. "They're playa-hatas. Your relationship with your mom is severely wounded; you re wounded; your mother s wounded as well. I started our gang in 87 when I was thirteen just hanging around with each other.

Many people have told me we have to make our own choices. Almost always someone else will jump in no matter the risk and say, That s my boy, my man, or my brother and I can t let it go down like that. Many people you know probably are not going to want to have anything to do with you, and sometimes even your own family won t either. I didn t trust them, nor did I know how to communicate with them. So it was official - I was a gang member, tagged by the police and all. Well for now I am going to say goodbye and hopefully my words will bring to you all a little bit more awareness that gangs and prison are not a joke, or a place to be. A moment of fun isn t worth a lifetime of pain, so if you want to have fun, do it with your family. Back in the '80's people who joined a gang was cause of being rejected at home, not getting attention they need, so they became rebellious and joined the gang. So, as with you, the child joins a gang. Your mom loves you so of course she wants the best for you. Mitch: C'mon, she's not gonna kill you. When I was in society, I didn't have any goals for myself other than living life day to day. Gang gang gang gang gang on 'em (gang).

Hector Soto Jr. was laid out on the sidewalk beneath a blue blanket. Follow your dreams, make then come true. I've always been a sweet, smart girl and ever since I ve started hanging out with gang members I ve been doing bad in school and getting an attitude with anyone who gets in my way especially people who talk smack because I m white. A fight broke out between two gangs. It affected my life by costing me fifty years in prison. I saw so many un-human things being done in those years and I can t get over the idea of how easy I became part of the madness around me. I just don't understand why people would place themselves in this situation.

I look out for him when he s here because I don t think I could face Mom and Dad if I let anything bad happen to him. How you know, what else you could do, or be, if you don't try? Beanie: There's my wife. I never thought that would happen but it did. Make the right choice and think long term, not for the easy solution like I did. You know what is the surprise to all this? In progress and with love - Luis B. Dear Diana, My name is Michael R. I am currently residing at the New Jersey State Prison serving a double life sentence. Such very bad form and is there a way, once this Coronavirus runs its course, to get all shark locked up in Rikers Island near Harvey Weinstein? So, yes, bullying is a factor to becoming angry, scared and joining a gang for the protection it offers. I went through so much in there; all this racism was new to me. Plus, you know deep inside that you have broken something that you cannot fix. Did you have to get jumped out?

A., his lovely young bride on his lap, a draft of "Kaddish II: This Time It's Personal" by his side. I m now O. G. and the big homie but what s that worth to me? Dean Pritchard: Actually, my name's not Cheese anymore. Anger eventually left from me.

There are no words on how I could explain those feelings. But I don t think peer pressure drove me to become a gang member. Arrested when I was sixteen, I ended any real possibility of having a successful life. You say you re a gang member. Take charge of your life in a responsible, positive, and productive manner. Of the two-day long party, Wolfe admits that "Everybody, Angels and Pranksters, had a righteous time and no heads were broken. " When I came to Chicago the first thing I saw was a lot of gangsters and I would like to ask you this question: What is the purpose of being a gang member? I shot at people but never killed anyone. And as for why you re attracted to gangs - you know why, and you know it s not right. Dear Babygirl, You re having a baby and you re so young yourself. Well things didn t go as I expected them. I have never had the opportunity to cross paths with my brother, but if we ever did it would be bitter-sweet because, on the one hand I love him and haven t seen him in eight years, but on the other hand it would be painful to see my brother under these circumstances. At home, many things were changing. The loss of freedom is a horrible experience.

I broke from that group and started to look for people who I thought were more like me. I been having a hard time because my mom keeps on asking me if I m in a Gang I keep on telling her that I m not in one. You ve got school - that you absolutely must complete. Some went to college or into the military; others played professional sports; and even though some did nothing truly spectacular, at least they are free to do what they want to do when they want to. Might fuck around and lose your life (gang, gang). Dear Marcela, Sincerely - Jesse G. How does it feel when you kill another person? They ain't talking money, hang up on 'em (gang). I know that was one of your questions, so if it isn t too late, and I hope it isn t, please try everything you can to stop yourself and your brother from joining a gang. Regardless of socioeconomic standing, gang tragedy always seems to catch the family and friends completely by surprise. Drugs were not a problem for me but, as far as my family, I am really ashamed of the mess I ve made out of my life.

Step into your young-womanhood. There aren't any words to be said to the victim's family! But in the end, no one wants their brothers in any gangs. If you live that long, it s real easy to take the first step in getting to where I am at. Beanie: Why don't you give that six months. If you deny who you are, you get stitches. I'm sipping promethazine. In your opinion, how does "bullying" play a role in becoming a gang member? Alex P. What were you feeling when murdering someone? He died in the back seat of his sister's car as she drove toward the hospital. If your boyfriend doesn t want to get out of his gang, then he s not ready to be responsible for this new life you two have created, which means that all of the responsibilities fall on you. I lost being myself, my human nature.

That's why her ass got clapped ho.